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Positive Discipline for Teenagers Helps You to Connect

Posted: Wednesday, July 08, 2009

by Gary Benjamin

I've heard many parents say they simply cannot understand their son or daughter after the child entered their teenage years. You can do a better job providing positive discipline for teenagers when you understand your teen.

There's a lot going on with your child at this important time of their life. Let's take a closer look at some of the things you can (and cannot) do to reconnect with your teenager.

Things You Can Do

Take one small trip each month with your teenager. This can be something as simple as taking your daughter to a store where you can both check out the latest clothing trends. This also is an excellent opportunity for you to learn about what the popular fashion is at school and with your teenager's friends. You can check out video games and / or computer games if your teenage son is a game player. The point is to find a healthy interest / hobby your teenager has and support it.
Get to know your teenager's friends. Sure they might look a little strange to you but you may just discover that behind that wild hair and baggy clothes lies a good kid with a good heart. Your teenager places a tremendous amount of importance on their friends. Your acceptance of their friends is important to them.

Make an agreement with your teenager for you both to set aside 30 minutes per week just to "stay in touch" with each other.

Things You Cannot Do

Constantly hover around your teenager. Your child needs some space and as a teenager they often feel like they need a great deal of it!
Try to figure them out. Don't sit around trying to analyze your son or daughter. If you want to know something simply ask them. Tell them "I trust you to be honest with me. I want to ask you something" and then ask your question.

Do not scold, lecture or otherwise embarrass your teenager in front of his / her friends. This is one of the quickest ways to alienate your teenager.

Parenting a teenager is not always easy. By having patience, understanding and providing a healthy and positive environment (including positive discipline) you will greatly increase the chances of staying connected with your teenage son or daughter.

Gary Benjamin is a father and writer on several of his favorite subjects including positive discipline for teenagers, how to write a resume for a job, and home security.

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